A Man`s Help guide to Buying a Sex Toy9148721

It's addressing that time of the season now where countless bewildered males are wondering precisely what their other half would like for Valentine's Day. They've finally realisted the usual male staple of flowers (making a lady think you must have done something wrong) and chocolate just won't make the grade any more. Those days are gone where men are rewarded using a blow job for just remembering, women nowadays have become more discerning, and if a recent survey will be believed, and another in four men are going to buy their lady a masturbator stroker this Valentine's Day.

Now here's the issue. When it comes to naughty things, mankind has one single problem. They have a tendency to think of themselves. Consider it this way, a person buying lingerie mentions one thing, does it turn me on? Unusual is a man who thinks to himself "Will she enjoy it? Would she elect to wear it even when I'm not around? Will it be comfortable on her?" Now a Basque and thong with stockings is quite sexy and just about guaranteed to make any man hard, but very few women would elect to wear that when nipping down to the supermarket to buy her weekly shopping.

Buying your sweetheart a masturbator follows the very same principle. What you look for to see your woman playing with, or need to play with together, often isn't exactly what she'd elect to play with when she's alone. There are 100s of different options out there, different shapes, sizes, colours, materials and also the task of selecting one to your lady is more daunting than you initially believed.

Her first toy?

Think it over, is it her first toy? It might even be your lady's first toy in which case, you need to be extra careful then one like the 35cm "The Fist" would likely scare her half to death. It's the same with the anal play toys and things that realistically appear to be penises. Women may find them frightening, or perverted.

Actually, you might be a good idea to look for something which could pass like a massager, such as the Hitachi Magic Wand which is a great starters toy, used only externally, it is great for stimulating the nipples, clit and then any other erogenous zone.

Of course, your lady might have decided that they wanted a toy and it is a little more open (or maybe more likely, secretly already has a minumum of one) in which case you could execute a lot worse than choose a rabbit vibe. These toys are bright, playful looking and also since being made famous on Sex inside the City, may be in your bedside drawer than some other in the world so it is is a logical choice. One additional choice is something from your fun factory range. Again, they come in bright colours, aren't too big and are waterproof so she can play in the bath or shower.

Is she a adult toy expert?

Is she someone whose knicker drawer allows you to feel distinctly inadequate? First thing I'll have to say is, don't worry about this. Some women often joke that when a vibe could buy a round of drinks, then they'd do not require a man in life. This is plainly not true, and just just because a woman loves her toys, it doesn't mean that she doesn't need or thank you, or that she could easily replace you with a vibrating mass of plastic any easier than you can replace her with a blow up love doll or even a Fleshlight.

Look for something a little different, something like the Tongue Joy that you play with together, or even the Tongue Teaser, each of which offer different sensations than a regular vibe. Or push her boundaries just a little, many women enjoy anal play, but ensure you know this to be true before you go ahead.

Obviously, at the end of the afternoon, you know your sweetheart better than me, and I certainly couldn't inform you exactly what every lady want as every lady is different. I will say this though.

Spend time thinking about it, spend some time and choose something you think she'll like, not something you think you'd like to see her having fun with.