A Man`s Guide to Buying a Masturbator1840412

It's getting to that time of the season now where millions of bewildered males are wondering exactly what their partner would like for Valentine's Day. They've finally realisted that the usual male staple of flowers (helping to make a lady think you've done something wrong) and chocolate just won't work any more. Those days are gone where males are rewarded with a blow project for just remembering, women these days have become more discerning, of course, if a recent survey is to be believed, the other in four men are going to buy their lady a realistic stroker this Valentine's Day.

Now here's the problem. When it comes to naughty things, mankind has one single problem. They tend to think of themselves. Consider it this way, a man buying lingerie mentions one thing, does it turn me on? Rare is a man who thinks to himself "Will she want it? Would she elect to wear it even if I'm not around? Would it be comfortable on her behalf?" Now a Basque and thong with stockings is extremely sexy and pretty much guaranteed to make any man hard, but not many women would elect to wear that after nipping right down to the supermarket to get her weekly shopping.

Buying your lady a masturbator follows the very same principle. What you need to see your woman having fun with, or need to play with together, often isn't just what she'd decide to play with when she's by hand. There are A huge selection of different options on the market, different shapes, sizes, colours, materials as well as the task of deciding on one to your lady is more daunting than you initially believed.

Her first toy?

Think it over, is it her first toy? It could even be your lady's first toy in which particular case, you need to be extra careful then one like the 35cm "The Fist" would likely scare her half to death. It's the same with the anal play toys and items that realistically look like penises. Women could find them frightening, or perverted.

Actually, you might be a good idea to look for something which could pass being a massager, such as the Hitachi Magic Wand the industry great starters toy, used only externally, it's great for stimulating the nipples, clit and any other erogenous zone.

Of course, your lady could have decided that she wanted a toy and is a little more open (or more likely, secretly already has at least one) in which case you could perform a lot worse than look for a rabbit vibe. These toys are bright, playful looking and since being made famous on Sex in the City, are more likely to be in a lady's bedside drawer than any other in the world therefore it is is a logical choice. Another good choice is something in the fun factory range. Again, they are available in bright colours, aren't too large and are waterproof so she could play in the shower or bath.

Is she a sex toy expert?

Is she someone whose knicker drawer allows you to feel distinctly inadequate? Initial thing I'll have to say is, don't worry regarding it. Some women often joke when a vibe could purchase a round of drinks, then they'd have no need for a man in life. This is plainly incorrect, and just must be woman loves her toys, it doesn't mean that she does not need or adore you, or that they could easily replace you using a vibrating mass of plastic any easier than you could replace her having a blow up love doll or perhaps a Fleshlight.

Look for something a bit different, something like the Tongue Joy which you play with together, or the Tongue Teaser, both of which offer different sensations than the usual regular vibe. Or push her boundaries a bit, many women enjoy anal play, but make sure you know this to be real before you go ahead.

Obviously, at the end of the day, you know your spouse better than me, and I certainly couldn't tell you exactly what every lady would like as every lady is different. I will say this though.

Spend some time thinking about it, take your time and choose something think she'll like, not at all something you think you want to see her having fun with.