A Man`s Guide to Buying a Sex Toy1136067

It's addressing that time of the year now where an incredible number of bewildered males are wondering just what their other half would like for Valentine's Day. They've finally realisted the usual male staple of flowers (helping to make a lady think you've done something wrong) and chocolate just won't cut it any more. The days are gone where men are rewarded with a blow work for just remembering, women nowadays have become more discerning, and if a recent survey will be believed, the other in four men're going to buy their lady a masturbator stroker this Valentine's Day.

Now here's the problem. When it comes to naughty things, men have one single problem. They have a tendency to think of themselves. View it this way, a person buying lingerie mentions one thing, will it turn me on? Rare is a man who thinks to himself "Will she like it? Would she elect to wear it even if I'm not around? Will it be comfortable on her?" Now a Basque and thong with stockings is quite sexy and pretty much guaranteed to make any man hard, but not many women would choose to wear that after nipping as a result of the supermarket to buy her weekly shopping.

Buying your lady a adult toy follows the same principle. What you need to see your woman having fun with, or desire to play with together, often isn't precisely what she'd choose to play with when she's by hand. There are Hundreds of different options out there, different shapes, sizes, colours, materials as well as the task of selecting one for your lady is a lot more daunting than you first believed.

Her first toy?

Consider it, is it her first toy? It might even be your lady's first toy whereby, you need to be extra careful the other like the 35cm "The Fist" would probably scare her half to death. It's the same with any of the anal play toys and items that realistically appear to be penises. Women could find them frightening, or perverted.

In fact, you might be a good idea to look for something that could pass being a massager, such as the Hitachi Magic Wand that is a great starters toy, used only externally, it's great for stimulating the nipples, clit and then any other erogenous zone.

Of course, your lady may have decided that they wanted a toy and it is a little more open (or maybe more likely, secretly already has at least one) in which case you could do a lot worse than look for a rabbit vibe. These toys are bright, playful looking and also since being made famous on Sex in the City, are more inclined to be in a female's bedside drawer than every other in the world so it is is a logical choice. One other good choice is something from the fun factory range. Again, these come in bright colours, aren't too large and are waterproof so she will play in the shower or bath.

Is she a masturbator expert?

Is she someone whose knicker drawer makes you feel distinctly inadequate? Initial thing I'll have to say is, don't worry about it. Some women often joke that when a vibe could purchase a round of drinks, then they'd do not require a man in their lives. This is plainly not true, and just just because a woman loves her toys, i am not saying that she doesn't need or love you, or that she could easily replace you with a vibrating mass of plastic any easier than you could replace her using a blow up love doll or even a Fleshlight.

Look for something quite different, something like the Tongue Joy that you simply play with together, or perhaps the Tongue Teaser, both of which offer different sensations than the usual regular vibe. Or push her boundaries a little, many women enjoy anal play, but be sure you know this to be true before you go ahead.

Needless to say, at the end of your day, you know your lady better than me, and I certainly couldn't inform you exactly what every lady want as every lady is unique. I will say this though.

Invest some time thinking about it, spend some time and choose something you think she'll like, not something you think you would like to see her using.