A Man`s Guide to Buying a Sex Toy600164

It's addressing that time of year now where countless bewildered men are wondering precisely what their other half would like for Valentine's. They've finally realisted that the usual male staple of flowers (helping to make a lady think you have done something wrong) and chocolate just won't cut it any more. The days are gone where men are rewarded having a blow work for just remembering, women these days have become more discerning, and if a recent survey is usually to be believed, and another in four men are going to buy their lady a best male stroker this Valentine's Day.

Now here's the issue. When it comes to naughty things, men have one single problem. They have an inclination to think of themselves. Consider it this way, a person buying lingerie mentions one thing, can it turn me on? Very rare is a man who thinks to himself "Will she enjoy it? Would she choose to wear it even though I'm not around? Might it be comfortable on her?" Now a Basque and thong with stockings is extremely sexy and pretty much guaranteed to make any man hard, but hardly any women would decide to wear that after nipping down to the supermarket to buy her weekly shopping.

Buying your lady a sex toy follows the exact same principle. What you look for to see your woman using, or desire to play with together, often isn't precisely what she'd elect to play with when she's by herself. There are Hundreds of different options on the market, different shapes, sizes, colours, materials and the task of choosing one for your lady is a lot more daunting than you first of all believed.

Her first toy?

Consider it, is it her first toy? It might even be your lady's first toy in which particular case, you need to be extra careful then one like the 35cm "The Fist" would likely scare her half to death. It's the same with some of the anal play toys and things that realistically look like penises. Women could find them frightening, or perverted.

In fact, you might be smart to look for something that could pass as a massager, such as the Hitachi Magic Wand which is a great starters toy, used only externally, it is good for stimulating the nipples, clit as well as any other erogenous zone.

Obviously, your lady could have decided that they wanted a toy and is a little more open (or even more likely, secretly already has at least one) in which case you could perform a lot worse than look for a rabbit vibe. These toys are bright, playful looking and also since being made famous on Sex inside the City, are more likely to be in a lady's bedside drawer than every other in the world so it is is a logical choice. One other good choice is something in the fun factory range. Again, they come in bright colours, aren't too big and are waterproof so she can play in the bath or shower.

Is she a adult toy expert?

Is she someone whose knicker drawer allows you to feel distinctly inadequate? Very first thing I'll say is, don't worry about it. Some women often joke that if a vibe could obtain a round of drinks, then they'd have no need for a man in their lives. This is plainly incorrect, and just must be woman loves her toys, it doesn't mean that she doesn't have or love you, or that they could easily replace you with a vibrating mass of plastic any easier than you could replace her using a blow up love doll or a Fleshlight.

Look for something a little different, something like the Tongue Joy that you simply play with together, or even the Tongue Teaser, each of which offer different sensations than the usual regular vibe. Or push her boundaries a bit, many women enjoy anal play, but be sure you know this to be true before you go ahead.

Obviously, at the end of the day, you know your spouse better than me, and I certainly couldn't tell you exactly what every lady would really like as every lady differs. I will say this though.

Spend some time thinking about it, take your time and choose something you think she'll like, not at all something you think you'd like to see her playing with.